The Tower in Love | Daily Tarot Card Meanings for Relationships
"Embracing transformation, finding strength in love."
The Tower, a card of upheaval and transformation, often comes as a shock when it appears in a love reading. However, it is important to remember that the energy of the Tower can bring about profound change and growth in relationships. When it appears in a love reading, the Tower urges you to face the truth, embrace change, and seek healing in order to move forward.
The Tower (Upright) in a Love Reading
New Relationship
The Tower advises that you gather more information before entrusting your heart. People always show you their best attributes in the beginning. Try not to buy into the initial image that is presented. You have nothing to lose by taking your time. The Tower can also warn you of tricking yourself into believing what you hope to see rather than what is truly there.
Long Term Partnership
For a healthy relationship, the Tower can signify a breakdown that results in a breakthrough. In any relationship conflicts inevitably arise. This card can symbolize tremendous healing by releasing toxic emotions that are negatively affecting the relationship. When confronting instability honestly, the Tower can be immensely cathartic.
Seeking Romance
The Tower encourages you to stop rationalizing and face the truth your instincts are alerting you to. Hopes and expectations may be drowning out your common sense and inner wisdom. Your heart will heal, open, and connect only after it accepts reality. Step out of the rubble and begin anew.
You will not find fulfillment by reliving past disasters.
The Tower (Reversed) in a Love Reading
New Relationship
Upright or reversed, the Tower warns against rushing into rebound relationships. Make sure enough time has passed after a previous breakup. If you are just beginning to form a connection, start with friendship. The Tower reversed advises that both partners bring closure to past, unresolved issues before initiating something new.
Long Term Partnership
The Tower reversed can represent a recovery process after crisis. One or both partners require healing, understanding, and patience. An attachment to an outdated structure has crumbled apart. This individual must clean up the debris in their own heart first before focusing on the needs of the relationship.
Seeking Romance
You may be healing from a breakup, or the ending of another intense attachment. Although it may not feel like it now, the dust is settling, and the hope of a brighter future will soon make itself known to you. The storm has passed; however, the pieces must now be picked up.
Looking to learn more? Discover the The Tower Reversed and The Tower Upright in a general tarot reading.
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