Queen of Cups (Upright) | Tarot Card of the Day
“Embrace and honor your emotions.”
Queen of Cups (Upright) | Tarot Card
The Queen of Cups views feelings as sacred, because they reveal life to us in vibrant colors.
She is nurturing, caring, and encourages her people to see the value of their own feelings and emotions. The Queen of Cups sees sensitivity as something that makes one strong, not weak. Feelings allow us to experience joy, excitement, love, bliss and rapture. The Queen of Cups reminds us to be grateful for our feelings, even when they cause us pain. After all, feelings give life complexity, color and dimension.
So many people nowadays are afraid to feel. We are told “don’t be so sensitive,” as if feelings make us weak. We are told to “toughen up.” This is especially true for boys, who above all else are not allowed to be sensitive or weak, although many girls are increasingly experiencing this too. The trouble with this, is that we all have feelings. Denying our feelings leads to imbalance internally and with the world around us. The more emotions that are bottled up, numbed or not experienced, the more living we miss out on. Many people avoid feeling because it might hurt. However, this is just fear chiming in again. Fear robs us of experiences that could potentially bring us joy.
Are you uncomfortable with your feelings?
Are you afraid to be open because someone or something might potentially hurt you? Do you bottle up your feelings and deny they are even there?
Cups and water in the tarot symbolize feelings and emotions. The Queen of Cups places her feelings in the most precious chalice of the entire tarot. Her cup is gilded in gold and adorned with angels. Just looking at her cup’s beauty brings the Queen joy. This symbolizes that she honors feelings as something sacred. The Queen of Cups sees the worth and value of feelings because they give life color and complexity. To prove this point, she is surrounded by colorful beach stones.
If you’ve ever collected stones on the beach as a child, you’ll remember that when they are dry, they are rather dull. However, if you placed these stones in water, suddenly the stones become alive with vibrant colors and textures. The vibrancy of the stones is revealed through water. Likewise, a dull or boring life, can reveal its complexity if you open yourself to feeling it, instead of being detached from it.
To experience the vibrancy of life, follow the Queen’s example and look for beauty.
Beauty activates emotional responses that feel good. Science confirms that beauty releases pleasure from the brain and into the bloodstream. Buy some flowers or beautiful art for your home or work environment. Admire the beauty in the natural world around you. It’s everywhere! Cherub-like undines decorate the Queen’s throne. The Queen of Cups is especially loving and protective of children and is a caring mother.
Look for what appears to be just dull beach stones in your everyday life. View these things through the lens of your feelings. Open yourself to the rapture of experiencing love and beauty. Watch life’s vibrancy reveal itself to you.
The Queen of Cups does not avoid her feelings. She takes them all: the good, the bad, the hurt, the sad, the love, the joy, the grief, the hope and the happiness. She places them in her sacred chalice and honors them. Your feelings give life dimension, complexity, richness, color and meaning. Honor them.
When the Queen of Cups represents another person, she is a kind, nurturing and maternal figure. You can trust her advice and her influence. She really cares for others deeply. She is also sensitive, has an eye for beauty and great style. If she is a parent, she is the best sort. Queens can be mature individuals of any gender who wield strong feminine power.
Queen of Cups in a Love Reading
New Relationship
The appearance of the Queen of Cups represents an exhilarating time, where every moment seems to create a meaningful new memory. Although the relationship is still in its beginning phase, your heart feels compelled to dive in. The Queen of Cups can also represent a partner who authentically cares and acts with empathy in relationships.
Long Term Partnership
The Queen of Cups can represent a union that has withstood the test of time. The journey was not always easy, but the love shared is legendary. You and your partner have a strong sense of loyalty to each other because of your shared history. The Queen of Cups can also appear when you need added compassion and empathy to address your partner’s needs.
Seeking Romance
If you are single, the Queen of Cups encourages you to be vulnerable, even if it feels scary. It is time to connect. Experience your life rather than hiding from it. Your sensitive heart is your greatest asset in your quest to find love. Allow it to remain open and curious.
